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kv{Xosb AXn{Ian¨p Iogvs¸Sp¯nb tijhpw AhÀ hocmcm[\ ]peÀ¯psaóp IcpXpó t¾Ñhpw t]Sns¸Sp¯póXpamb B¬tImbvabpamWv kJmth Xm¦fpsS IhnX; AXp Xncp¯mXncpó {_n«mkv Xm¦tfmSpw £an¡m\mhnñ: Zo] {]ho¬ FgpXpóp...

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'_emðkwKw sN¿s¸« Hcp s]¬Ip«n, Xsâ DÅnsemcp _oPw Xó, B ]pcpjs\ Cãs¸Spóp, {]Wbn¡póp... Ft¸mgpw tZjysams¡btñ tXmóptó... kv--t\lw Hcp {]XnImcamhpó L«w'. Cu hmNIw ]dª kmw amXyq, kmans\ Xncp¯mXncpó apXnÀó ]{X{]hÀ¯I³ {_n«mkv, \n§Ä Xpdóp k½Xn¨Xv 'DÅnð' kq£n¨ncpó kv{XoItfmSpw kv{Xosb AXn{Ian¨p Iogvs¸Sp¯n AhÄ X§fpsS hnt[bXz¯nð hópXn\p tijw X§tfmSv hocmcm[\ ]peÀ¯pw Fó Gähpw t¾Ñhpw t]Sns¸Sp¯póXpamb B¬tImbambmWv.

\n§Ä Hcp ssewKnI ]oU\ CctbmsS¦nepw a\Êp Xpdóp kwkmcn¨n«ptïm? Rm³ Fsâ tPmenbptSbpw ]T\¯nsâbpw `mKambn kwkmcn¨n«pïv Hóne[nIw CcItfmSv. Ahscms¡ ]dbpóXv sNhn Xpdóp tIÄ¡p. 'A\phmZanñmsX AhÀ¡p t\sc hcpó Hmtcm t\m«hpw Ahcnð Dfhm¡póXv Ad¸pw shdp¸pamWv, A\phmZanñmsX AhcpsS icoc¯nð hogpó Hmtcm kv]Àihpw AXnsâ HmÀ½bpw `bw am{Xañ adn¨p N¯v Noª ZpÀKÔw han¡pó GtXm Hcp ihw X§sf kv]Àin¡pó HmÀ½bmWv. C\n AXpw ISóp A\phmZanñmsX icoc¯nte¡v _oPanän¡m³ \nevIpóXv kz´w `À¯mhmbmð t]mepw BbmtfmSpw B _oPt¯mSpw tXmópóXv t{]atam Imatam Añ, adn¨p C\n HcmhÀ¯n IqSn kz´w ]pcpjXzw sXfnbn¡m³ Ah\p IgnbmXmhpw h®w Ahs\ \ncmbp[\m¡m\mWv.'

\n§Ä am{Xañ, A{Ian¡s¸« CctbmSv AhÄ Xm³ Ccbmbn Fóv ]dbpó \nanjw IpSp_¯nð \nóv, s]meokv tÌj\nð \nóv, Bip]{Xn apdnbnð \nóv,h¡oem¸oknsâv--\v hcm´bnð \nóv AS¡w ]d¨nð tIÄ¡mw B{Ian¨ht\ sImïv KÀ`w GsäSp¸n¡mt\m DÅ A\pcô\ NÀ¨IÄ.

F´m \n§Ä HsI IcpXpóXv kn±nJv emð kn\nabnð ]dbpwt]mse Hcp IogS¡enð s]¬Ip«n iÐw Dïm¡nbnsñ¦nð AhÄ \n§fpsS ]pcpjXzw BkzZn¡pIbmsWtóm? AhfpsS PohnXw \n§Ä k¼qÀ®am¡n sImSps¯tóm? \n§Ä ASnt¨ð¸n¡pó \n§fpsS hngp¸pw ]nsó \n§sf Xsóbpw 'kaql¯nse lnäveÀ am[h³Ip«nbpsS' t\À cq]§Ä Xebnð sI«nshbvIpt¼m kÀÆw kln¨p {]Wb]qÀÆw \n§sf Ahcp AhcpsS PohnX¯nsâ `mKam¡psatóm ?

AdnbpI B{Ian¡póht\mSp Ccbv¡p tXmópóXv shdp¸mWv. 'hm¡psImtïm, IhnXsImtïm,Øm\am\§Ä sImtïm F{X alXzhXvIcn¡m³ {ian¨mepw td¸v Fó Gähpw lo\amb {Inan\ð Ipäw AXv a\pjys\ a\pjy\mbn AdnbpóhÀ¡v apónð \ymbnIcn¡m\mhm¯ apdnhmbn Xsó \nð¡pw.  {]ikvX social psychologist James W. Pennebaker ]dbpópïv :þ '\n§Ä XncsªSp¡pó hm¡pIfnð \nóv \n§fpsS hyànXzw Adnbmsaóp'.

{io kmw amXyp hm¡pIfneqsS \n§Ä \n§fptS kv{Xo]£w shfnhm¡nbt¸mÄ klXm]w tXmónbXv \n§fpsS I×p³]neqsS ISóp t]mb Hmtcm kv{Xocq]t¯mSpamWv. Cu I®v sImïmIpatñm Ihn \n§Ä Ahsc Iïn«pïmhpI?

kmw \n§Ä¡v thïXv NnInÕbmWv Fw .Pn bqWnthgvknän Im¼knð \nóv A[nIw AIsebñ tIm«bw saUn¡ð tImtfPv AhnsS \ñ sskt¡mfPn / sskImÀ{Sn hnZKv²À DsïómWv Adnhp. DSs\ Hcp No«p FSpt¯mfq \n§Ä¡v NnInÕbpsS Bhniyapïv.

A. Nicholas Groth, H. Jean Birnbaum sâbpw(Men Who Rape: The Psychology of the Offender), tPm¬kv sPkv XpS§n A\h[nt]cptS td¸nð B{Ian¡pó hsâ sskt¡mfPnsb Ipdn¨pÅ ]T\§fnð BhÀ¯n¨p ]dbpóXv Hcphsâ sexual dysfuciton Asñ¦nð sexual Cs¼m«³knbnte¡v Xm³ \o§pIbmtWm Fó `bw AXmWv Ah\nð B{IaWkz`mhw DïmIpóXv FómWv.

AXpsImïv Xsó \n§fpw \n§sf t]mse hm¡pIÄ sImïv Cu lo\ IrXys¯ \ymbnIcn¡pó \n§sf t]msebpÅhcpw AdnbpI CXv t]msebpÅ NÀ¨IfneqsS shfnhmIpóXv \n§fnXv t]msebpÅ NÀ¨IfneqsS shfnhmIpóXv \n§fpsS Xsó jÞXzhpw AXnep]cn kmwk-vImcnI jïXhpamWv. AXpsImïv kzbw \hoIcn¡m³ Hcp {iaw \S¯pI. \n§Ä¡v thïnbñ. kaql¯n\p thïn.

 

 
]n³Ipdn¸v--:þ skIv--kv hÀt¡Àkv dolm_nentäj³ t{]mPÎnsâ `mKambpw, sskIym{Sn þ ssewKnI þ KmÀlnI ]oU\ CcIÄ¡p thïn {]hÀ¯n¡pó hna³kv FbvUv Fó kwLS\bv¡p thïnbpw {]hÀ¯n¡pt¼mÄ Iïp ap«nb Hcp]mSp s]¬Ip«nIÄ¡v thïnbpw, Hmtcm \nanjhpw CcIfmIpó s{]mPÎv ImWm¯ Bbnc§Ä¡v thïnbpw Ipdn¨Xv.
(\nba¯nepw {Inant\mfPnbnepw _ncpZm\´c _ncpZw t\Snb BfmWp teJnI)

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